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Meet Eddie the Smacker, our new friend….

Monday, November 28th, 2016

We have a new kitten! Her name is Eddie the Smacker. And she  says:

“I, too, have been feeling overwhelmed by this season, by the never-ending political and emotional tides roiling and crashing around me. I have been feeling helpless as… well, a kitten. Adrift in a dark sea.

But take heart!

It is in these hard times that revolution is most often born. From these dreary days, people are moved to find their clearest voices. We shall seek each other and cling together, and  find art and noise and  hope…

Hope!

And maybe, if we are lucky, a little bit of ice cream left in the bowl on the counter. Oh, oh my friends! Good days are still ahead.”

 

On “kindness” and “niceness” and justice and kids…

Thursday, November 24th, 2016

I’m taking a deep breath as I type this.  I’m nervous to say these things out loud.

But it is 2016, and we have elected Donald Trump to the highest office in the land, despite his willingness to incite violence, risk our country’s safety, disrespect women and minorities, and put the most fragile Americans in danger.  As a Jew, a woman, a mother and an artist, I’m terrified. As a human, I’m aghast at what my fellow Americans have chosen (and what the rest of us have allowed, by not fighting harder).

It is also Thanksgiving today, and out in the west, the Standing Rock Sioux (joined by many others) are fighting on behalf of clean water, the earth, their culture, and ALL of us. We are not supporting them. We are turning a blind eye, as we uncomfortably snap pictures of our kids in paper feathers, as we roast apocryphal turkeys.

And then there is the water in Flint, Michigan, which is still undrinkable. The young black men (and women) gunned down in our streets, who so often go nameless. The dire situation in our public schools.  The lives lost daily in Syria. Etc. Etc. In short, this world is a mess, an utter disaster.  This is not new, but 2016 feels… like a moment.

A few years ago, a book came out, called Wonder.  Maybe you’ve heard of it? People loved this book, embraced this book. It was a book that showcased how radical empathy might alter lives. Wonder has become an important book for schools, for educating kids about kindness.  The book advocated that we all “Choose Kind.”  This was a good thing.  We were all proud of ourselves, of children’s literature, and the power it can wield.

But in the years since, I think something insidious has begun to happen. The “Choose Kind” message seems to have shifted.  More and more , I see people suggesting that we “Choose Kind” by avoiding uncomfortable situations.  It has been suggested to me  that “Choosing Kind” is in opposition to the “Call Out Culture.”  In fact, some people are not “Choosing Kind” so much as they are “Choosing Nice.”

I AM NOT OKAY WITH THIS.

We do not “Choose Kind” by not making the homophobe or the racist feel “weird.”  By not holding the bully accountable.

KINDNESS and NICENESS are not the same thing. Kindness is not etiquette.  Kindness is not an avoidance of discomfort.  Kindness is a deep, true generosity of spirit. Kindness looks at the world, or a classroom, or a birthday party, and says, “Who is hurting most of all in this space, and how can I use my relative power and privilege to help them?”

We can Choose Kind and be radicals. We can Choose Kind by hurting feelings.  I know this feels confusing, in the moment when it happens.   But I believe this, I really do.  Sometimes, Choosing Kind means that YOU have to be the one who ruffles feathers.

I sat this week at NCTE, listening to a panel on censorship, and thought about the role everyone plays in our communities. A few hours earlier, at a signing, I’d been speaking about Trump to a likeminded teacher, and then glanced back at my signing line, to notice a woman frowning at me. I could feel her criticism. I could feel that this particular teacher was not in agreement with me, but that she knew she was in a minority. I imagined her thinking, “Politics has no role in this place. Children’s books should not be political.”

And in that moment, I could feel myself altering my own tone, shifting my attitude, for her.  I did not want to make her feel isolated, alone in her politics. Not here, in this room full of liberal teachers.  I felt bad for her, even as I disagreed with her completely.  I signed her book silently, tried to smile, and she left.

Then I felt dirty inside.

This is often the hard moment, for me. The moment when being “nice” to an individual contradicts everything else I know and believe.  I am being “nice” to someone, but for all I know, this woman worked to shut down her school’s LGBTQ club. For all I know, she approves of a Muslim registry.  In theory, I am furious at this woman.  But I don’t really want to make her cry. Not in person, at a conference.

And yet–maybe that was a mistake. Maybe there was a conversation she was ready to have. Maybe there, at NCTE, she was rethinking things, struggling, and I missed my opportunity.

I guess I don’t really have helpful advice for anyone, around this topic.  But it has been swirling in my head nonstop, and today, Thanksgiving,  felt like the right day to say it aloud.  I think we all need to think about what we mean when we say “Choose Kind.”  I think there are moments when we politely agree to disagree. But I also think we’re in an important moment in history. I think that while I believe deeply in kindness, I’m beyond niceness right now. I’m beyond etiquette. I’m ready for justice. I’m ready to Choose Just.

Occasionally, someone will suggest to me that we, the children’s authors, should stay out of politics.  As though, because we write for kids, we should “keep it light.”  I could not disagree more strongly.

Because we write for kids, we have an obligation to be political. We have an obligation to educate. To empower.  We owe these kids more than bunnies and cookies and easy rhymes. We owe them kindness, always. But we also owe them truth, and justice, and the tools to create their own world.  Hopefully a better one.

The election is over, and I will make an island…

Thursday, November 10th, 2016

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This has been an unbearably hard 24 hours.  I woke up yesterday, hungover from the election.  I’d had only three hours of restless sleep and (as a result) a small seizure. (this is something I don’t talk about very often in public, my epilepsy, but it’s part of my reality– my preexisting condition- and why Obamacare needs to exist).  I had to find a way to tell my kids (who crashed around midnight) that Trump had won. I had to make breakfast, and get them off to school.

Then I sat down and wept.

After that, I took a shower, did the dishes. I checked my work emails, and called a friend. We met for lunch and wandered around in a daze. Useless.  But it was better to be together, sad, confused. It was better to be not alone.

It helped to be in East Atlanta, which is, in this home-away-from-home, a family to me. A bubble. It helped to go to the coffee shop and see friendly faces, to have people reach out and pat my back, hug me. To know we’re all feeling this, together.

Back at home, I found myself thinking about Orphan Island.  About this book I’ve written. Because when I set out to write it, and described it to people, several of them said, “Oh, it’s a dystopian book?”

“No,” I said. “I think it’s a utopian book.”  And truly, that had been my goal in writing it. The dream of a perfect place.  It’s a book about an island, an ideal island, where kids make and do and live with joy and comfort. It’s a lovely place, the island. Full of wild kittens and strange sunrises and starfish fields and ripe fruits. It’s the kind of world we want for our kids.

But here’s what I’m thinking about today– the ISLAND only exists as an isolated reality, as a place apart.  The world OUT THERE, beyond the mist, that world is still going on (in my head, in the backstory), and it isn’t perfect at all.  In some ways the ISLAND’s perfection is necessitated by the imperfections of the world OUT THERE.  The island is created by the imperfections of the world OUT THERE.  Almost as a negative, an inverse.

Now. This morning I’m rested. I’m not weeping. I’m drinking my coffee and thinking about the OUT THERE and the ISLAND.  I’m thinking about how we live in the OUT THERE, the real world.  It’s hard to understand sometimes. It’s painful.  But it’s true.  And…

The OUT THERE necessitates the ISLAND. The brutality and injustice of this world we inhabit demand invention, creativity, dreaming. The reality demands that we imagine something better, and then find or craft or birth it.

And that is what art is for.  Art is the island.  We write and paint and draw islands. In doing so, we offer reprieve, and we incite hope.  Most especially in our children, we incite hope.  Or we try.

Yesterday, I had to tell my children Trump had won. They had to go to school and see their teachers openly crying. They are scared.

Today, I will do something different. Today, I will tell them a story. I’ll create an island for them.  A world they can dream of, and want to inhabit.  So that maybe, in four years, when they are teenagers, they’ll be ready to bring it to life.

Full of wild kittens and strange sunrises and strong leaders and fair laws and justice.

Onward.

On Studying and Teaching…

Friday, November 4th, 2016



“Chief Professors All should be
Drowned in early Infancee!”

(Mary Poppins Comes Back)

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Many years ago, I went to school to become a poet.  I did this in high school, in college, and in graduate school.    Because I loved writing poems. I loved reading poems. I loved talking about poems.

But… as it turned out, I did not love studying poems. I don’t know why.  I had virtually no interest in learning ABOUT poems and poets.  ”Schools of thought” didn’t interest me, and I seemed to forget all the things other students managed to store in their brains..

Occasionally, I’d make an attempt to check out “texts” out from the library, but then, almost always, I’d return them unread.  I’d listen to other students discussing such texts in bars, and find the conversations fascinating. But I couldn’t make myself do the WORK of becoming an academic in that world.  I had to make peace with the fact that though I was a poet, I was not a real academic.  I didn’t have the love for study inside me. I decided I must just be lazier than everyone else.

Of course, in theory, becoming an academic was still my official goal. I’d gone to school for it, and I loved university life– the community and culture of my college town. Plus, I loved teaching!  I loved workshops. I loved the classroom. I loved watching students wake up to language.

I just felt like a fraud, whenever I tried to keep up with my well-read peers at a dinner party.  Mixing up my modernists. Puzzled by poststructuralism.

Then a few years after I finished my MFA, a funny thing happened. I published a book for kids, and found myself in an entirely new literary community  With a new “canon” (such as it is) and new conversations. Pretty quickly, I found that my feelings about studying had changed entirely.  Though I had no “reason” to be studying ABOUT children’s literature, one day I looked over at my bookshelf and saw this…

Books like Minders of Make-Believe and Dear Genius were cluttering up my bedside table. I regularly dipped into my Encyclopedia of Magical Creatures. I was re-reading Grimm, and then hunting down parallel stories from other cultures. Though poetry hadn’t ever completely caught my interest, the history of children’s literature was absolutely fascinating to me. I spent my time thinking about myth and fairy tale, the effects of technology and war on childhood, and how the poetry craft I’d learned in grad school operated in picture books too. I suddenly had imaginary papers I was writing in my head– about the  iconoclasm of Mary Poppins, for instance. Or the historical events that stunted the development of Jewish picture books.I found I was becoming… something of an academic.  At last! I’d found the subject that set me on fire.

Except that then I realized something else. This, children’s literature, had always been my subject, in a way. Though I never talked about it in school, I’d been lugging THESE texts around since I moved out of my parents’ home at eighteen…

Reading and rereading. Arnold Lobel and Margaret Wise Brown. Edith Nesbit and Noel Streatfield.  I had been studying all along. I just hadn’t given myself permission to take my subject seriously.  I hadn’t known there was a world for someone who wanted to reread C.S Lewis yearly.

I was happy to have found my subject. I was delighted to make friends who geeked out on the same texts I did, and wanted to laugh and gab in bars. To talk about how science and religion intertwined in L’Engle’s work.  Or to scan Dr. Seuss.  I figured I’d never find a job teaching the craft and study of children’s lit, but I was happy. It was enough to have found a cohort.

Well, this week I found a job!  This week I joined the faculty of the Hamline MFA in Writing for Children and Young Adults, and in January, I’ll fly to Minnesota, to learn and teach, to meet the incredibly gifted writers and teachers and students who make up that exciting program.  I am pinching myself, utterly overjoyed at my good fortune.

And I just want to take a second to thank YOU, to thank all of you, who have helped me find my way. Simply by being interested in the same things I’ve been interested in.  For helping me take this subject and myself seriously.  For being part of the conversation. For studying along with me, here in this space.

If you’re coming to NCTE…

Saturday, October 29th, 2016

Dear bookish pals planning to attend NCTE…

I keep hearing from friends who are planning to attend the conference in a few weeks. They ask me for advice on “where to go” and “what to do” and it’s a tricky question, because the places I love best aren’t walkable from the conference, even though I only live a few miles away. But many of them are a short $5 uber or Lyft away, so I highly recommend you get away from your hotel and check out my town!

Atlanta can be a tricky place to puzzle out (so much so that I used to devote a blog to it). But there’s a whole lot of wonderful here, if you know where to look.  Let me help you?  (bearing in mind that these are my personal haunts, so most of them are close MY house.  There’s plenty more if you want to venture even further from your hotel)

To begin with, Atlanta has some pretty major historical sites.  Of course you’ll know about the King Historical Site and Ebenezer Baptist Church, but have you heard of South-View Cemetery? The entire city is dotted with locations important to the civil rights movement, and you can learn more about them by taking a bus tour. Not unrelated, we have an amazing new Center for Civil and Human Rights Museum.

We also have lots of tourist spots of other types, from World of Coke to a world class Aquarium to the High Museum or the Margaret Mitchell House. But for my money, the civil rights history is where it’s at.  Especially if you’re only in town for a few days.

(Revised:  my friend Eric has pointed out that the Jim Henson Collection at the Center for Puppetry Arts might be relevant to your interests, and boy howdy, is he right! Likewise, you might enjoy Greg Christie’s Freedom in Congo Square show at the Auburn Avenue Research Library. Also, this reminds me that there’s currently an Eric Carle show up at the High Museum, which might also be something you want to check out!)

For food, Atlanta is pretty great.  You can find just about anything you want.  The new trend lately is these snazzy upscale food courts like Ponce City Market (which has a sort of playland on the roof) and Krog Street Market, which are both connected to the Atlanta Beltline (a sort of pedestrian highway in the city, definitely worth a walk, and typically full of public art and locals going for a jog).  But the original market in Atlanta is the historic Auburn Street Curb Market, and it’s my personal fave.

Of course we aren’t just markets– the city is chock full of everything else too. It almost isn’t worth me advising you about food, because there are so many great places, but a few things I love are Home Grown (for big casual breakfast or meat-and-3), Miller Union (for chic farm-to-table), Antico (for pizza), Little Tart (for perfect  pastry), Ria’s Bluebird (for veg-friendly breakfast or lunch), Spoon (for Thai), and Gunshow (not cheap, and a little hard to explain the innovative concept, but visit the site!).  I’d also be remiss if I didn’t give a plug to Joe’s, my personal fave coffee shop (we have a LOT of them), in case you just want a little time offsite to sit and watch the people go by.

For bars, we also have a ridiculous abundance of options, but if you want something different, I’d highly recommend popping in at Sister Louisa’s Church of the Living Room and Ping Pong Emporium (I can’t possibly explain it. Just go!) Joystick Gamebar (arcade games and gourmet hot dogs), Argosy/Brigantine (swanky decor, big beer menu, and skeeball), The Earl (the best rock and roll venue in town, and darn good pub and grub), or Northside Tavern (live blues every single night, and good dive bar grime).

If you want bookstores (and of course you do)  you have a great list of options. Atlanta is blessed to have several wonderful indies.  Little Shop of Stories (a little further away, in Decatur) is an outrageously good children’s bookstore that just expanded and became even more wonderful.  Charis Books is an institution in the city, a feminist bookstore with all sorts of amazing programs and a fantastic hand-picked selection of books for all ages.  A Capella is another institution, a general interest/literary store that brings a wealth of bookish  events to the city (but doesn’t sell books for kids, just FYI). If you’re willing to drive even further, and want to do a tour of bookstores, we have about five more, but those are the closest to the conference.


Man, this is getting longer than I expected, and I should stop, but it’s hard. There’s so much! So if you have a specific request (organic nail salon? gluten free cookies? hungry for BBQ? in need of a nice walk? desperate for good vintage shopping?), please tweet it at me @laurelsnyder and I’ll send you to the right place.  I promise.  Let me help you love Atlanta.  It really is a hidden city, and can be hard to see, under all the kudzu. But it’s a vibrant special place… I promise.

Women Make Picture Books Too (2016)…

Friday, October 14th, 2016

Here we are again!  The leaves are falling, the kids are wearing sweaters, and it’s TIME TO THINK ABOUT WOMEN-ILLUSTRATED-PICTURE BOOKS!

For a number of years now, I’ve compiled a fall list of picture book illustrated by women (if you’re interested, you can leap-frog back through the lists). This is my small effort to combat the overwhelming number of mock Caldecott and end-of-year lists that tend to ignore so many amazing women artists (probably not unrelated to the fact that the actual Caldecott has historically been awarded to a disproportionate number of male illustrators).

And though last year Sophie Blackall took home the medal for Finding Winnie, and Ekua Holmes got an honor for Voice of Freedom:  Fannie Lou Hamer, Spirit of the Civil Rights Movement, there’s still a lot of work to be done.

I hope that these lists encourage my bookseller/ reviewer/librarian/teacher friends to look beyond the “big” books being promoted most loudly, and seek out the special gems that might otherwise fall through the cracks.  That’s my simple goal.

I’ll begin by posting a few 2016 books I love, illustrated by women artists.  These are by no means the ONLY books I’ve noticed this year, but I want to hear from you!  Just post your favorites in the comments below, and please don’t self-nominate. Tell me what book YOU love best, by some other talented woman.

And maybe, if you notice a beautiful book on this list you’ve never seen before, you should ask yourself how/why that is, and seek it out!

Okay, here we go…

Shy, by Deborah Freedman

Finding Wild, by megan wagner Lloyd, illustrated by Abigail Halpin

Twenty Yawns, by Jane Smiley, illustrated by Lauren Castillo


This is My Dollhouse, by Giselle Potter


The Airport Book, by Lisa Brown

A Hungry Lion, by Lucy Ruth Cummins

Du Iz Tak?  by Carson Ellis

The Littlest Family’s Big Day, by Emily Winfield Martin

The Uncorker of Ocean Bottles, by Michelle Cuevas, illustrated by Erin E. Stead

Henry and Leo, by Pamela Zagarenski

Before Morning, by Joyce Sidman, illustrated by Beth Krommes

On Our Way to Oyster Bay, by Monica Kulling, illustrated by Felicita Sala

Thunder Boy Jr., by Sherman Alexie, illustrated by Yuyi Morales

Cloth Lullaby: the Woven Life of Louise Bourgeois, by Amy Novesky, illutrated by Isabelle Arsenault

The King of the Birds, by Acree Graham Macam, illustrated by Natalie Nelson

 

Orphan Island is coming…

Tuesday, August 16th, 2016

Publication is still almost a year away, but I just turned around the copyedits for Orphan Island, so it feels like it’s actually going to exist.  I’m still pinching myself.

If you’re so inclined, feel free to “like” this Facebook page, for updates, giveaways, and helpful Youtube videos for tips on harvesting squid ink, and other island-fun.

Or you can add Orphan Island to your Goodreads library!

Or you can just jump around and shout for joy with me.

I’m so so so happy about Orphan Island, which has provided a very different writing experience than any of my other books.  I’ve learned a lot since I began.

Sketches!!!

Friday, June 17th, 2016

I just saw these beautiful sketches over at Emily Hughes’ Instagram page, and couldn’t resist posting.  Aren’t they great? So curious to see what we end up with, for the final cover?

Oh, the things you’ll become…

Friday, May 13th, 2016


Recently, someone asked me about alternatives to “Oh, the Places You’ll Go,” as a gift for kids graduating from Kindergarten or Pre-K, and I turned the question over to my friends, who provided a variety of wonderful options.

But then I found myself wanting to write my own version. So here it is.  Rough and dirty.  The meter needs work for sure, and I’ll probably end up slashing and revising it, if I do anything with it at all, but I never post to the blog anymore, so I thought I’d do that.

Enjoy!  (and apologies if this isn’t to your liking).  I don’t mean it for everyone. It’s MY story, rooted in my current moment, which is specific to me.

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Oh, the Things You’ll Become…
A book for your darling child

Oh, sweet darling child,
So winsome, so wild,
I look in your eyes and behold…

All the ways you will grow,
All the things you will know,
You’ll be tall. You’ll be smart. And so bold!

Your soft sleepy gazes,
Adorable phrases,
And generous smiles will please.

Each curious question,
And daring suggestion,
Will help you  dream mountains and seas.

Until… one fine day
You will glance down my way.
And my heart will be filled with such pride.

But you’ll grunt and then moan,
“Mom, just leave me alone!”
As you stomp to your room, where you’ll hide.

Oh, the things you’ll become!
Kinda mean. Kinda dumb.
At the same time standoffish and needy.

Of course I’ll still love you,
But I’ll want to shove you.
Because you’ll be whiny and greedy.

You might also smell.
As your head starts to swell.
You will torture your poor little brother.

When you don’t get a car,
You will tell us we are,
The most horrible father and mother.

Then we’ll sigh and we’ll freak,
We’ll feel worried all week
And we’ll anxiously, nervously pray.

We’ll stay up each night.
We’ll get tipsy and tight.
Though it  won’t take our troubles away.

You’ll move out, and we’ll write,
Now that you’re out of sight.
You’ll ignore us and turn off the phone.

And when we catch you,
You’ll have “things” to go do,
We’ll pretend to have “things” of our own.

But you know what, sweet child,
Though the ride will be wild,
We’ll savor each mile with you.

Because as you grow,
We’ll grow too, dontcha know?
We’ll be better for all we go through.

I refuse to pretend
That you’ll be my best friend
If you hate me sometimes, that’s all right.

Nobody will ever
Mean more to me. Never.
I’ll be here when you need a fight.

Oh the things you’ll become.
Kinda mean, kinda dumb.
Kinda monstrous sometimes, and I’m proud.

That you’re fierce and you’re real.
And you know how to feel.
You’ll be honest, and live life out loud.

Do YOU have a picture book in you?

Wednesday, March 23rd, 2016

For years I’ve been dreaming up a picture book class, and now it’s a reality!  Soooo excited about The Decatur Writers’ Studio.

“Picture books are perhaps the most inventive popular literary form we have, and that’s exciting!  You can do ANYTHING in a picture book, if you do it well enough.  But that makes it hard to know where to begin, and how to proceed.  Picture books aren’t just about telling a story or teaching a lesson. They’re about capturing a voice or character in a few short words, collaborating with visual space, considering the way children truly think, and sculpting words and sounds to leave a deep and lasting impression.  Picture books are poetry, even when they don’t feel like it.”

Join us for The Wild Rumpus!